Comments on: Am I Being Fooled By This Nigerian Man?

By: Kandy

Kandy — Thu, 19 Dec 2019 03:59:16 +0000

I’ve had my experiences with Nigerian men in America and over seas and what I know is they move quickly when It comes to dating. Meaning I usually hear I love you after the first couple of dates (with american Nigerian) . Which leads me to believe that when it comes to dating doesn’t matter where a person is from, if that man is sincerely interested in you he will want you to be his woman. But the problem is there are a lot out there who are just looking for a green card, and some who’s just ready to settle down and have a family. It’s kinda hard to tell the difference between the two because they say all the same things. I’m currently dating one now and he’s a business owner and doesn’t need anything from me. He wants to help me out with finances so my question is what is the safest way for him to send me money without me giving out my banking info?

By: Marquita

Marquita — Mon, 11 Nov 2019 10:00:08 +0000

omg same story here but I have been talking to mine for a year now it was a year October 24th… I have really fell for him hard he is so sweet and loving… I’m so confused

By: Chelle

Chelle — Mon, 23 Sep 2019 03:04:34 +0000

In reply to Keisha. Same here! Reading all these threads are overwhelming omg

By: Chelle

Chelle — Mon, 02 Sep 2019 00:15:39 +0000

Omg same story here with the video chat and all.. but he has NEVER asked me for money or anything. It’s always the other way around. He makes sure I’m ok if I need anything which is not much either cause I handle myself quite well… but he does want to get married when I visit him , & I feel that it’s too soon… he seems sincere … idk I just wish to know that if citizenship is all he want , then he should just say that.. I’m really falling for him … hard… lol they’re such sweet talkers lol . He’s already paid for my passport and all. & today he asked for my ring size.. I’m just really confused …

By: CarmenD'lite

CarmenD'lite — Thu, 15 Aug 2019 01:48:55 +0000

In reply to Dee. Wow that sounds a lot like the Guy I am talking to! Does he live in Italy by chance?

By: Cherish

Cherish — Sun, 23 Jun 2019 12:57:05 +0000

In reply to Porsche. It’s crazy because I have the exact story happening to me now so I don’t know what to believe at this point

By: Kola

Kola — Mon, 17 Jun 2019 14:47:42 +0000

In reply to Porsche. He also said the same things to me.

By: Kola

Kola — Mon, 17 Jun 2019 14:46:31 +0000

In reply to Porsche. All of these stories are do close to home for me but for some reason or another I feel that maybe you are deceived. I am talking to a Nigerian man social media. Video chat text for 6 months now . He has pass port and a daughter always wants me to talk with them. He's yourba demon run for your like. Currently in 2019 I am still talking chatting. How did your story turn out.

By: Porsche

Porsche — Sun, 24 Mar 2019 18:57:23 +0000

I’m in the US and have been dating a man online, (social media, video chatting, etc.) for almost a year. He seems so great. He says he love me and I love him too. He’s never asked for anything. But I’ve offered and have given A LOT. He’s very poor. But he’s shown me everything, passports, his family and community. I am considering traveling there to marry him. Yes I hear the stories, but mine is so different because he hasn’t appeared to be scamming or using fake names/information. He claims to have been married before but the girl left and remarried. He gets up daily to work the farm and appears to have a good work ethic, but claims there are no jobs in his part of Nigeria. He says he came across my page in a group and was instantly attracted. Then fell in love from there. He has his ways being Nigerian, but overall seems like an awesome guy. How can I know if being nice and not asking for anything is just another way to get money or citizenship because he knows my heart is good? How can I know if this is real? How can i know if he plans to actually come to America, get employed and make a better life for himself and us? I need to know..

By: Joyce

Joyce — Sat, 23 Mar 2019 20:11:41 +0000

My person did ask for the itune cards…got only one…asked about my bank so his check can be deposited when he come here….professing he love me and he’s a christian man.

By: dave25d

dave25d — Fri, 04 Jan 2019 08:48:42 +0000

In reply to Dee. There are lots of good guys, infact, 90 person of Nigerian men are great. White women just love falling for bad guys.

By: Denise

Denise — Mon, 31 Dec 2018 02:01:43 +0000

This Nigerian guy was using the name of a soldier on Instagram and after many questions he said his name was Derek. He said he owned his own phone business in Nigeria and I think that’s a lie. He asked for $200 in I tune cards he say to check his bid coins. Keep professing his love and want me to come to Nigeria He’s a scammer

By: Sandy

Sandy — Sun, 30 Dec 2018 03:48:12 +0000

In reply to Shanta. Does he go by the name of Levine Shaffer? That is the same story my fiance gave me. He said his wife cheated on him while he was a mission in Afghanistan. He is also in Lagos Nigeria. He also told me that he has a daughter named Kennedy.Did he give you this number to call him? (209-265-8058) please feel free to call me at 1-667-228-7141

By: Dee

Dee — Thu, 27 Dec 2018 01:27:04 +0000

Wow, these comments are a bit overwhelming. I feel that I am more skeptical now after reading than I was before. This is my first time interacting with a Nigerian man. I’ve never trusted due to stories I’ve heard from past. A much younger Nigerian man has caught my attention. We have been communicating for 2 1/2 months. He’s charming very friendly sweet funny sexy attractive and spiritual. We talk every day at least 2 times a day sometimes 3. There was only one day where we didn’t communicate and that was because he was having issues with the phone. He has asked me to help buy him a phone because the one he was using broke. I was furious and tearful that he would ask. It was bringing up my fears that he just wanted to use me. Though, my heart wants to believe his purity. I continue to look for loop holes or a black hole. We’ve talked openly about my concerns and fears. So far, he hasn’t really given me reason to doubt. My insecurities hinder me at times. One thing I try to remember is to not judge someone because on someone else mistakes or bad behavior. He is his own person and should have the fair opportunity to show who he is as an individual. Though, I struggle. I truly want to enjoy this young man. Therefore, I have opened my heart and welcomed him into my life.

By: Maria

Maria — Mon, 24 Dec 2018 19:01:32 +0000

In reply to Mable. Good afternoon the same thing has happened to me involving the same guy with the same name!! Oh my gosh I’m so pisssed but glad I met you!! I deleted the app and have ceased all communication with him

By: Mable

Mable — Thu, 20 Dec 2018 18:41:06 +0000

In reply to Kylie. Hi Kylie, I think we have met the same guy. It seems as if maybe things didnt work out for you guys so he is back at using the same profile to Catfish women on IG. Let's compare notes with one another if you like. The same profile is still on IG as MIchaelWillson instead of Pedro but same pictures. I did some research and found this is a Nigeria scammer, which is a young man about 24-26 in age scamming on older women. Be careful. I can guarantee this is the same person.

By: Newyork

Newyork — Tue, 11 Dec 2018 21:52:55 +0000

In reply to Amber. Used for papers. You know it as well.

By: Felicia

Felicia — Tue, 11 Dec 2018 21:50:01 +0000

In reply to Kylie. Don’t fall for this. Especially if you are a whitr woman May sound hard but your story is a replica of others. And they love older women. Go with your gut not your heart. #heslookingfor citizenship

By: Diane Gregory

Diane Gregory — Tue, 11 Dec 2018 21:02:45 +0000

In reply to Chinweike. I'm talking to a Nigerian man online, he tells me the visa is expensive to obtain in his country to come to America and that I should pay for it and apply for fiance visa for him what would be your advise

By: Shanta

Shanta — Thu, 06 Dec 2018 08:27:53 +0000

In reply to Keisha. I will be asking God to reveal to me about the Nigerian guy that likes me so I'm in agreement with that God will never fail you

By: Shanta

Shanta — Thu, 06 Dec 2018 08:12:29 +0000

In reply to Kylie. Just be careful, because one from Lagos Nigeria says he loves me, and says his wife cheated on him with his best friend. He is also a movie actor. I saw some of the movies he's played in. He says he wants to invite me to come to his country and pay for me to get there. I'm willing to take the chance, but I'm going to be very careful

By: lynn nelson

lynn nelson — Mon, 05 Nov 2018 12:19:56 +0000

In reply to Amber.

oh wow I sound like you I have been talking to a young nigerian and so far he has asked me for a samsung cellphone and now he says his daughter is in the hospital though he wont send me a picture of her in the ICU…he is married but separated he says..his parents forced her on him lol i had to laugh…he begged me for a video chat and i finally gave in he always says he loves me and i am beautiful and i dont believe it he will get no money from me i think he is handsome sexy but reallly too too young for me but he has awakened a fire in my soul and i find myself thinking of him all the time….we have cyber sex through messenger and its nice.first time for me ..but this requests for money is getting old…and i am about to let him go even though i dont want to….cause i am lonely and his words are sweet…sad that men prey on vulnerable women