How to love a Nigerian man or how to show love to a man from Naija
Dear Sir or Madam,
thank you for the opportunity to ask you a question.
I am a german educated and christian Lady (25years) and I have a relationship to a 33years old Igbo for over 3 years.
We went through a lot of trouble with each other due to the difficult status he has here.
After all this lost of trust,
I would like to ask:
Is it possible that a nigerian man loves his partner while he went astray?
How does he show real love to his wife?
As a German I believe in expressing love by
– the desire to get to know the partner more better and better
– to put effort 4 the partner in surprises, gifts
– poems, hugging, kissing
– smiling at you and defending you etc.
– comforting you when you cry (if he understands it or not doesn´t matter)
As I see it from my own partner (soonest husband), It is more like you live a parallel life, than a life in togetherness.