Am in a relationship with Nigerian for almost 8 years now. we are married (no kids)although at the beginning it was all about “paper issue”. The problem i have with him is always busy, he never have time to be with me. This is how it was from the begin i feel like am forcing myself to him. If he is at home he prefer to sit in another room and evoid me at costs.
I tried talking to him but there is change.he always goes without telling me where he is going and dont get me wrong it’s not like he needs permission. But ifeel lonely, miserable, like am not woman enough for him before he enjoyed my cooking but now he doesnt eat at home at all.
when i come back from work which is around 18h30 he goes out and come back around 21h00 and this doesn’t happen once in while but it is my daily bread. I have already decided to get divorce but i want to hear from other nigerian men what must i do. We dont have sex anymore and when we about to his penis doesn’t stand at all, sometime it does but when he is about to enter me it just falls.